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		<title>What Do You Say &amp; Do When You Accidentally Offend a Billion People?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 14:03:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope you see that the question in the title of this post is rhetorical.  If you ever happen to offend a billion people&#8230;or ONE person on accident &#8211; I have 3 simple tips for you. 1. Accept that you did indeed offend them (if you meant to offend them or not should be temporarily [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>I hope you see that the question in the title of this post is <strong>rhetorical</strong>.  If you ever happen to offend a billion people&#8230;or <strong>ONE person </strong>on accident &#8211; I have<strong> 3 simple tips</strong> for you.</p>
<p>1. <strong>Accept that you did indeed offend them</strong> (if you meant to offend them or not should be temporarily irrelevant).</p>
<p>2. <strong>Say you are sorry from the heart</strong> and don&#8217;t say something like &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry <strong>IF</strong> I offended&#8230;&#8221; but say &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry THAT I offended&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>3. <strong>Change the offensive behavior</strong>.  If you don&#8217;t, #1 &amp; #2 mean nothing.</p>
<p><strong>Why am I saying this? </strong> My good friend and fellow <a href="http://CovChurch.org">Covenant </a>pastor Eugene Cho made it <a href="http://eugenecho.wordpress.com/2009/11/04/deadly-vipers-mike-foster-jud-wilhite-soong-chan-rah-chuck-norris-joyluck-club-angry-asian-man-wanna-be-ninjas-and-everyone-else/">painfully obvious today on his blog </a>that my (internet) friends Mike Foster &amp; Jud Wilhite, with the marketing and promotions of their Deadly Vipers concept, are being <strong>highly insensitive and very offensive</strong> to Asian people.  <a href="http://eugenecho.wordpress.com/2009/11/04/deadly-vipers-mike-foster-jud-wilhite-soong-chan-rah-chuck-norris-joyluck-club-angry-asian-man-wanna-be-ninjas-and-everyone-else/">You have to read it for yourself</a>.</p>
<p>I say this @ Courageous all of the time, but <strong>I love people that tell me I have a booger hanging out of my nose</strong>.  There is nothing worse than walking around and talking to folk with a floaty booger thingy hanging out of your nose and people that love you will tell you about it.  Very few people will do that, but when they do <strong>it tells me a lot about their character</strong>.</p>
<p>Eugene did Mike &amp; Jud a favor.  <strong>Their PR campaign is basically a public booger that deserves a public response</strong> and will hopefully create some widespread sensitivity to some real cultural issues that folk are pretty much ignorant about.</p>
<p>Before you get defensive, <strong>read my 3 tips above</strong>.  I have learned them the hard way.</p>
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