Comments on: Why Arguments Generally Suck http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html The Blog of Shaun King Thu, 12 May 2011 15:57:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: shaunking http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6883 shaunking Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:19:29 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6883 Hope things have smoothed over. Time really is a major healer of the wounds we create in arguments. Hope things have smoothed over. Time really is a major healer of the wounds we create in arguments.

]]> By: shaunking http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6881 shaunking Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:19:00 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6881 Thanks a ton! Keep praying! Thanks a ton! Keep praying!

]]> By: shaunking http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6882 shaunking Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:18:40 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6882 Aggressive dude mode is rarely a good thing @ home. I learned that many years ago, but he still wants to come out from time to time. Resist! Aggressive dude mode is rarely a good thing @ home. I learned that many years ago, but he still wants to come out from time to time. Resist!

]]> By: shaunking http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6880 shaunking Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:17:44 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6880 It is very hard to resist arguments, but worth it. The key is to not turn off your emotions altogether or become apathetic. Hope you're doing very well now! It is very hard to resist arguments, but worth it. The key is to not turn off your emotions altogether or become apathetic.

Hope you're doing very well now!

]]> By: shaunking http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6879 shaunking Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:16:47 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6879 Absolutely! This is an awesome verse for this very concern! Absolutely! This is an awesome verse for this very concern!

]]> By: gregatkinson http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6861 gregatkinson Thu, 04 Jun 2009 18:41:36 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6861 Thanks for being real. My wife and I had an argument/disagreement last night, too. Life is tough sometimes. God is good. Thanks for being real. My wife and I had an argument/disagreement last night, too. Life is tough sometimes. God is good.

]]> By: ihatechurch http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6858 ihatechurch Thu, 04 Jun 2009 16:09:31 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6858 YOOOOOOOOO. funny how at some point during the argument it hits you..... how can we finish and be happy..... we believe in you both and are rooting for you. that is the beauty of life.... prayer is beyond supersonic, it is a flavor from heaven. YOOOOOOOOO. funny how at some point during the argument it hits you….. how can we finish and be happy….. we believe in you both and are rooting for you. that is the beauty of life…. prayer is beyond supersonic, it is a flavor from heaven.

]]> By: Ann http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6857 Ann Thu, 04 Jun 2009 15:47:13 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6857 p.s. Make up sex is always the best. p.s. Make up sex is always the best.

]]> By: ryan http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6853 ryan Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:36:46 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6853 My wife and I just got in an argument the other night over NOTHING. They almost always flare up when someone isn't HEARD correctly. Before I launch into 'agressive dude' mode, I'm learning to 'interview' my wife about what she's trying to say. My wife and I just got in an argument the other night over NOTHING. They almost always flare up when someone isn’t HEARD correctly. Before I launch into ‘agressive dude’ mode, I’m learning to ‘interview’ my wife about what she’s trying to say.

]]> By: Ann http://www.shauninthecity.com/2009/06/why-arguments-generally-suck.html/comment-page-1#comment-6852 Ann Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:34:47 +0000 http://www.shauninthecity.com/?p=930#comment-6852 Shaun, I couldn't agree more. My husband and I had an argument last week (and it has taken a week before we were speaking to each other again). The argument was so stupid and out of place. The bottom line is that he feesl the way he does and I feel the way I do and it was not worth arguing about. He has not changed the way he feels and I have not changed the way I feel. During the argument he said some things about me that had nothing to do with the subject of the argument that cannot be taken back. We have been together for 20 years and don't argue often. I was just thinking about this subject this morning and saying to myself, "After 20 years, you still haven't learned when to shut up." I did not have to participate in the argument, it was not that important, and no good came from it. Shaun, I couldn't agree more. My husband and I had an argument last week (and it has taken a week before we were speaking to each other again). The argument was so stupid and out of place. The bottom line is that he feesl the way he does and I feel the way I do and it was not worth arguing about. He has not changed the way he feels and I have not changed the way I feel. During the argument he said some things about me that had nothing to do with the subject of the argument that cannot be taken back. We have been together for 20 years and don't argue often. I was just thinking about this subject this morning and saying to myself, "After 20 years, you still haven't learned when to shut up." I did not have to participate in the argument, it was not that important, and no good came from it.

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