From the monthly archives:

August 2008

  • Made a weekend trip to Cincinnati with my family.  My wife grew up there and we visited some of her favorite childhood spots and the Cincinnati Zoo.  We had a great tip and stayed at the Garfield Hotel.  You should go there. The rooms were HUGE.
  • I was shocked at how rough downtown Cincinnati was.  Beautiful old buildings that would be million dollar lofts in Atlanta were abandoned and boarded up.
  • I love Atlanta and would like to be there the rest of my life. We’ll be making the road trip back there tomorrow morning to meet with my brother and his family.
  • We have two great families that are moving to Atlanta from out of state that will be a part of the launch team of The Courageous Church.  I must admit that this makes me nervous and super excited about what God has in store!
  • We have four families that are contemplating moving from England (yes…that England) to Atlanta.  I am praying that everything falls into place for them to make this move.
  • We had nearly a dozen people join our launch team last week and I am so amped that I want to launch the church next week!  We have about 130 days to go! 
  • You can join our movement today @ Courageous.tv
  • I have a gut feeling that Gustav is going to cause much less damage than expected.
  • My whole family is talking about politics.  Obama’s speech and the selection of Sarah Palin by McCain is a big deal  for my family.  What do you think of her selection now that the shock has worn off?
  • I start classes for a new Masters program @ Emory this Tuesday morning and am pretty amped.  I want to be sure that The Courageous Church is getting the sharpest, best trained pastor they deserve.
  • Emory has provided me with a full scholarship for preaching and I feel a healthy sense of pressure to deliver the goods there.  I am so thankful to God for this opportunity and have already met some great folk.
  • It’s never too late to go back to school.  I met several classmates last week that were over 50 years old and was so impressed by their passion to pursue the call of God on their lives.
  • Looking forward to meeting with some really gifted launch team members later this week to discern how we can really utilize what they do so well. 
  • The UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship) is coming to Atlanta this week.  If the Lord leads you, please listen to His voice and give me a ticket.  I’ll be sure to tell people about Jesus once I get there. :)

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"Seeing Barack Obama accept the Democratic nomination for President will be one of the biggest moments of my life."

Yesterday morning, I typed those words to several thousand friends of mine through Twitter and Facebook and received a response as diverse as our nation.  Admittedly though, I was surprised at the number of people that were angry, dumbfounded, or just downright confused as to why seeing Obama nominated would be such a big, hairy deal for me or anyone else.  While it makes deep and easy sense to me, my family, and millions of American’s, many folk just don’t get "it" and I feel partly responsible for helping them to get "it" because I just don’t think anyone has ever made it very plain to them.

I was honored to have BBC follow my coverage and raw thoughts of the speech on Twitter last night.  Hundreds of us had a spirited, but civil evening of political engagement and debate and I think we are all better for having done it.  I gave my heartfelt response as to why last night was such a big deal there, but hope to say it with a little more prose here for you.

I endorsed Barack Obama nearly two years ago and almost left my previous church job when I had a window of opportunity to work for his campaign.  However, I have since pledged not to use this blog and to never, ever use the platform of The Courageous Church to endorse political candidates.  That is a principled decision that I detail further here in my explanation of how our church will approach politics.

I am not interested in using this space here to illuminate why I chose to endorse Barack Obama or the many reasons why I am still an avid supporter of his campaign.  I made this decision with access to all of the same information you have.  If you arrived at a different conclusion, that is perfectly fine with me.

Obama_speech_mile_highWhat I hope to help some of you understand is why the speech that Barack Obama gave last night was not only one of the biggest moments of my life, but was one of the biggest moments in the entire history of our country.  This goes beyond politics and far beyond wedge issues that drive us apart.  This goes beyond party affiliation and flag pins.  This goes beyond attack ads and slanderous email campaigns.  This goes beyond John McCain and even goes beyond Barack Obama.

The United States, compared to most of the world is a very young nation.  The sobering truth is that the land we call home was once the home of other indigenous people that were murdered en masse and eventually squeezed into tiny pockets of land that we call reservations.

To make this land profitable, a system of forced, free labor was created.  I’m not talking about a friendly volunteer system like you have at your church, but a brutal, oppressive system of slavery was created so that this country could grow quickly and gain power.  As an African American Studies major at Morehouse College, I read eye accounts that would make vomit today that describe unthinkable atrocities that were done to imported Africans to break their spirits and make them into forced servants.  These stories would make Saw and the Texas Chainsaw Massacre look like Teletubbies.  Here is a documented sample of what slaveholders often did on plantations to totally break the will of the imported Africans.

A newly imported African man would regularly be killed in front of other imported Africans on a plantation to break their will to fight or escape.  A strong African man would be stripped naked in front of everyone and have his left arms and legs tied to one horse and his right arms and legs tied to another horse.  Those horses would then be whipped.  The African man would then be stretched and stretched by the horsepower.  His screams of agony would be like nothing you have ever heard before.  First his tendons would tear, then his arms would break, then his arms would rip off, then his legs would break and be ripped off of his torso.  His limbless body would then soon die.

No one would ever try to escape from that plantation. Ever.

To say that a Black man was never intended to be President of the United States is a gross understatement.  Black men were never intended to be human when this country was founded.

In 1787 at the United States Constitutional Convention, it was, in fact, determined that imported Africans were not human and a government clause was passed that determined that imported Africans were only 3/5 human.  For you math whizzes – that’s 60%.  Thomas Jefferson, in his writings entitled "Notes on the African Race" suggested that the other 40% was gorilla, but we all know that that would make him a personal fan of bestiality.

At least 3 million Africans died on brutal ship rides from Africa to the Americas.  As many as 100 million Africans were forced into slavery against their will.  After 250 years of slavery in this country, "free" African Americans were denied the right to vote and tens of thousands of Black men (and women and children) were lynched without ever having any type of legal justice.

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It was just 43 years ago, with the passing of The Voting Rights Act, that the hard-earned right to vote was earned for all people in this country.  Many members of my family and many of you remember the harshness of segregation.  My friend Chris Elrod, a self-proclaimed redneck pastor, gives his vivid memories of those days here.

All 43 Presidents of this country have been white men.  Even more Vice Presidents have been exclusively white men. No men of any of any other race and no women of any race at all have been elected or selected for these positions.  How can a democratic country that proclaims we are ready to take freedom to other nations call itself free when 100% of its presidents are made up of a group of men that only make up 30% of our beautifully diverse population?

Two years ago my wife, a great elementary school teacher, took her kids to the Georgia State Capitol for a tour.  When the kids (all Black) saw the wall with the portraits of every governor in the history of our state, several kids honestly and painfully asked, "Mrs. King, do you have to be a white man to be Governor of Georgia?"  My wife answered with an emphatic "no" but the kids never quite believed her.

For decades, Black parents have told their kids that they could be the first Black President of the United States.  Black people were then told over and over again in a ridiculous joke that this role had already been taken by Bill Clinton.  Colin Power, at the height of his popularity had an amazing 80% approval rating in America – higher than any politician today.  It was said that he would be a shoe-in for President, but he was urged by his wife not to run, in great part because of her very real fears for his personal safety.

Barack Obama is not God.  He is not a god.  He is not a messiah.  In fact, he is an admittedly flawed and down to earth man with a story of humble beginnings that is so preposterous that it would seem like far-fetched fiction to most publishers.  However, his nomination and his awesome speech last night to the largest, most diverse crowd ever assembled for a political speech, goes beyond his personal story.

The nomination of Barack Obama breaks down barriers that many thought would never be broken.  The nomination of Barack Obama shatters at least one glass ceiling that has appeared altogether unreachable.  The nomination of Barack Obama means that our nation, with its tremendously painful past, has the power to do what no other G-8 nation or world superpower has ever done – elect a man with Brown skin to the highest nation in the land.

If elected President, Black parents will then be able to say to their children that they can be the NEXT Black President instead of the first Black President.  The difference may appear subtle to most, but not me, not to my wife, not to my neighbors.  For us, it is HUGE.

It is not just huge for Black families in America, but major parts of the entire world are ablaze with the idea that this barrier may be broken.  Its profundity resonates throughout Europe and throughout Africa.  Our country has been known for decades as a real land of opportunity.

Nothing embodies the idea that this a land of opportunity more than electing a man born in Hawaii as the son of an African immigrant and a white mother from Kansas.  Many people are starting to lose hope in the great ideal that is the United States, but the nomination of Barack Obama is a BIG, BEAUTIFUL SIGN, that the doors to this land of opportunity are still open.

Most critics, including conservatives, are saying that the speech below is one of the best political speeches ever delivered.  Not just for its oratory, but the speech was celebrated for its politics, its tone, and its weight.  Many analysts predicted that the venue would be too big and that the sound and energy would be lost.  Some very respected conservatives even prayed that it would rain, but it didn’t.

See it again or for the first time here:

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Launching out to start a new entrepreneurial venture is a major risk.  Failure isn’t just a possibility – it’s likely.  My vision for The Courageous Church here in Atlanta is so huge that I am pretty sure we are either going to hit a grand slam or completely strike out.  Our risk of failure is significant because we plan to take Craig Groeschel’s advice and do what no one else is doing to reach who no one else is reaching.

In the midst of this church planting adventure, many planters run their marriage into the ground.  Let me make it plain – DON’T DO THAT!  I almost did that a few years ago when I came within inches of planting a church in downtown Atlanta, but decided that doing so without my wife on board would put the decision pretty high up on my list of dumb things I’ve done (right behind chasing down and choking the scoundrels that broke into our house last year).

I am hoping you can share your thoughts, but let me tell you a few things I have done to make my spouse (more) comfortable with the risks that we are taking.

  • I was a pastor and a church planter in a multi-site church BEFORE we launched out on our own.  If you can get some real leadership experience before you launch out into your risk enterprise, do it.  It will help you and will show your spouse that you are serious.
  • I have worked hard to develop partnerships with people and organizations that are a lot smarter and more experienced than I am.  These folk provide coaching, advice, prayer, and more.  I wouldn’t do it without them.
  • I still had to sell the vision for The Courageous Church to my wife like I do everyone else.  Don’t assume that your spouse knows and understands every idea you have just because you say you have a bright idea.  It really took months of sales pitches for my wife to really understand where I was going and how we were going to get there.
  • I have a financial plan.  THIS IS HUGE.  Your spouse needs to know that in the midst of following God that you all are not going to end up as residents in the local homeless shelter.  My wife has agreed for us to cut back financially and to live a modest lifestyle so that we can plant this church, but she is doing so because she knows I have a plan.

What are some things you have done or would have to see to make you comfortable with risks like church planting?

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Candler_school_of_theologyMy heart yearns to reach uchurched people and help build them into courageous followers of Jesus.  That’s why we’re launching The Courageous Church in downtown Atlanta.  It’s pretty much what I eat and breathe and dream about (any leaders or church planters understand this?). 

I start back @ Emory tomorrow and could imagine that it’s going to be pretty hard to focus.  Will you stretch your hands toward Atlanta and pray that God grants me a daily burst of intense focus?  I’m on full scholarship and have to meet pretty high academic standards to maintain good standing!

If you haven’t read my story of forgiveness here, check it out.  I’m so amped to be getting emails and comments from all around the world from people that are really moved by the story.

Also, join us in our celebration as we get ready to LAUNCH HUGE @ Center Stage on 1/11/2009!

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ForgivenessIn January of 2007, I received an email from a name I did not recognize.  It was entitled, Long Overdue Apology. I thought that it must have been junk, but much to my surprise it was amongst the most moving things I have ever read.

I grew up in a very racist town in rural Kentucky. High School was total hell there for me and many other brothers that dealt with constant harassment and abuse with no support from the school whatsoever.  After two years of being called every nasty, foul thing you could imagine, being chased down by cars, having everything stolen from my locker several times, having a jar of tobacco spit thrown into my face, and forced into several brutal fights, I was eventually ganged up on by a mob of racists and was beaten so badly that I missed about 20 months of school recovering from two spinal surgeries and fractures to my ribs and face. To this day I have never fully recovered from the injuries and have had to have multiple surgeries since.  I still have significant physical pain that I have to will myself to overcome every single day stemming from that assault in 1995 and talk about my constant battle some here and here.

A white student, who, unbeknownst to me, had been troubled for twelve years by something he did to me, found me on MySpace and wrote this moving apology letter. You will find my response beneath his. I have left his name out. I hope it touches you in a unique way and displays for you the power of forgiveness.

Take care,

Shaun

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Title of Email: Long overdue apology

Dear Shaun,

You might not remember me or the event I am about to apologize for, but I remember, and I can’t let it wait any longer. I saw you on here and thought "no better time than now."

My name is **** ****. We went to Huntertown, Middle School and High School together yet never really hung out, just different groups of friends I guess. Even though over the years I had several VERY different groups of friends. Which leads me to my apology.

Do you remember the fight Thomas Stepp and Scott Myhre got into that sort of almost sparked a racial war somewhere around my Junior (your sophomore) year?

Well, while I was never really very close to Scott, several of my "close" friends at the time were, and out of some retarded ignorant sense of loyalty I said some things to you as you were walking into your neighborhood ( I will never forget) that have weighed heavy on my heart ever since.

The things I said were racist, they were ugly, and they came from a place in me that was never genuine and certainly has no home inside me now.

I was not raised that way, I am not that way now, and from the bottom of my heart Shaun, and regardless if you remember this or not, I am so very sorry those words came out of my mouth. Ever.

Minutes after I said those awful things to you I went to the home of a very close aunt who passed away this summer. She told me that for the first time in my life she was ashamed of me. And to be honest, I was more than a little ashamed of myself.

I said those things for the very worst reason in the world (not that there is a good reason).

I said those things to you in order to fit in. And that is the worst kind of ignorant cowardice that I can imagine.

I sincerely hope that you can accept my apology. In case you dont remember this happening, let me assure you, it did. And I have never forgotten. It has actually become one of the biggest regrets of my life. And trust me man, that is saying something.

I’m sorry Shaun, I’m not a bad person, I have worked hard to change the way racist people view minorities. I wont bore you with the details, but people know where I stand on matters such as these, and that brings me happiness now, but I couldn’t let the things I said to you stand any longer.

Thanks for you time,
**** ****

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(My Response to the Apology)

Dear ****,

Words cannot describe how much your very transparent, heartfelt apology touched me in a very real way. It took a great deal of courage for you to put yourself out there like that and I want you to know that I have forgiven you for anything and everything you ever did to me man. To move on from the things that happened to me in Versailles, I have long since had to say to God, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do," but your direct appeal to me helps me move on from the pain in a different fashion.

Out of all of the crazy things that happened to me when we were in school you are actually the only person to ever offer any type of apology and that means something to me. It means that God has placed in you a conscience and heart that wants to be whole and pure and not broken and wounded. It means that it is never too late to say you’re sorry. Very often we hear a voice inside of ourselves telling us to do things like what you did by apologizing to me, but rarely do we listen to that voice and act on it. You did and I believe that God will bless you because of your obedience.

My wife and I have since moved to Atlanta and have a very good life down here. However, we both often comment on just how absolutely crazy, hurtful and shallow of a time high school can be. You are not the first person to have ever acted out in the name of fitting in ****. At that age, we are very ignorant and lack the context to really know how much our words and deeds may impact those around us.

I want you to know that I hold no grudge against you and have no ill feelings toward you. The guilt and regret that you expressed in your message shows me that this apology was as important for you as it was for me and I hope that you now have the freedom and peace of mind to move on into all that God has for you. ****, you are a good person and the best of your life is ahead of you. Move forward with boldness and know that you have a new friend in me. I believe in you and hope the very best for your future.

Thank you again for your sincere apology,

Shaun King & Crew

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Center_stageThe Courageous Church is coming to Center Stage – right in the heart of Midtown Atlanta in Atlantic Station! 

This is a BIG, HAIRY move for us as we prepare to reach the city of Atlanta with chain-breaking worship and a courageous, bold message of what it means to follow Jesus!

Nearly ever major artist imaginable has played @ Center Stage, but…

The Spirit of the Lord is about to move in a major way!  Get ready…here we come!

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For my kids, starvation means not getting a snack between breakfast and lunch or snack #2 between lunch and dinner.  Could you imagine the desperation of living in a place where so little food exists that you watch your children become emaciated unto death?  I cannot imagine such a reality.  I have eaten something every single day of my life. But millions of kids will die this year all around the world because of starvation and the illnesses that it breeds.

My wife and I have been so overwhelmed with guilt and frustration about the issue of world hunger and starvation that it has dominated my mind over the past 48 hours.  I am completely confident that feeding the hungry pleases God.  I don’t have to pray about it.  I don’t have to read it in some fancy New York Times best seller.  Hungry people need food (and clean water).  We have the means to get it to them.  We should do it.

I am seriously considering the idea of The Courageous Church (the church plant that we will be launching here in downtown Atlanta in about 140 days) giving all of its after-cost funds and donations to the cause of world hunger.  I hope to flesh this idea out with you in the days and weeks ahead.  I know that such a statement is risky, but Francis Chan & the Cornerstone Church community are already giving at least 50% of what they bring in back to important causes around the world.  In today’s celebrity church climate, that’s courageous.

  • Learn more about what Francis & Cornerstone are doing here.
  • See how people in Haiti are eating dirt (that they still have to buy) because of outrageously high food prices.
  • Watch Anderson Cooper in this video about the miracle food, PlumpyNut here.

If at the end of my life, the indictment of me was that I took the words of Jesus to feed the hungry too literally, what a legacy?! 

Would love some raw feedback.

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Shawty_loBefore I became a Christian, I was a hip hop DJ.  I DJ’d @ house parties and clubs, made mix tapes, promoted concerts, and more.  Every dime I had went to music.  A good number of my childhood friends and college roomies are now full-time rappers and producers.  Although I mainly rock audio books and podcasts on my iPod nowadays, I know enough about hip hop to pull some leadership lessons out of it that will apply to all of us.

Suspend your criticisms for a moment while I ask you this question…Are you a Shawty Lo style leader or a T.I. style leader?

"Shawty who?" you ask.  "Isn’t T.I. the name of the scientific calculator that I paid too much for in college?" you wonder.  Don’t worry…your reformed hip hop junkie is here to make it all plain.

TiShawty Lo & T.I. are two popular rappers from Atlanta.  Both have done some time in jail.  Both have some catchy songs out right now.  However, the two are on very different ends of the pendulum swing in terms of their success.  T.I. has had multiple platinum albums, fills stadiums all around the world, has been in a few movies, and is a contemporary hip hop icon.  Shawty Lo really just broke big into the hip hop industry, has a few successful singles, and is working hard, with a good degree of success, at making a name for himself.

In reality, most of us are on the Shawty Lo end of the spectrum of life.  We’re still pretty local in our influence, have done a few things well, some people know us, but we’re not quite as known as "those" other folk and we’re hoping that the best of life is yet to come.  One of the key reasons guys like Shawty Lo are so successful is that people feel like he’s not too far removed from the hood and he gives folk hope that if he can make it out, they can too.  I can dig that, but…

HERE’S THE LEADERSHIP LESSON:

At one time, not too long ago, TI was in the same pivotal position as Shawty Lo.  He was pretty local, had a few big hit singles, had major street credibility, and listeners felt like T.I. was "one of them."

T.I. then DIDN’T do two things that has gobbled up a lot of "successful" rappers recently.

  • He didn’t start dissing and challenging the BIG rappers on the block at the time.  This move always gives the up and comer a temporary boost in YouTube hits and blog coverage, but ultimately alienates thousands (even millions) of potential fans of the bigger, more known rapper that feel a greater sense of loyalty to the proven star.  Furthermore, when you diss the big named dude early in your career, it has a way of defining you as "the guy that dissed the big named dude early in his career" instead "the talented rapper with street cred."  Canibus admits this regarding his feud with LL Cool J.  Shawty Lo is now dissing T.I. with what seems to be every chance he gets.  While this may give him some fame today, history shows that this will likely cause his career great harm.
  • Once T.I. started having some hit singles and was making a name for himself, he worked really hard (too hard in some ways) not to present himself as the brand new rich guy that no longer relates to the hood, sips designer champagne straight from the bottle, dates ethnically ambiguous super models, and lives in a mansion with 12 bathrooms.  It wasn’t that those things weren’t true, but T.I. understood that it was his relatability that was a major reason for his success.  Once folk can no longer relate to you, they move on.  Master P. fell prey to this in some ways by beginning to film all of his videos in mansions with goofy paintings of himself in the background.  By the time he appeared on Dancing with the Stars, all credibility had been lost! Shawty Lo is starting to run this risk as well.

The moral of the story is…don’t try to make it big by dissing other people in your field (Google has no need to diss Yahoo) and don’t act brand new once you start to have some success (Steve Jobs and Bill Gates dress just like they did 20 years ago).

For laughs and giggles here’s a video of Percy Miller (Master P) on Dancing with the Stars.  What was he thinking?!

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Still writing from my Blackberry until I get a computer up and running @ home.

I have a hunch that sometimes you get the feeling that something is missing from your life. I get this feeling from time to time and think I know what it is. You know, like I know, that God is calling you to a deeper, more courageous, meaningful life. Am I right?

Take a few seconds today and leave a comment letting me know what’s keeping you from living that life…

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Both computers in my house broke down at what seemed to be the worst time ever. I am about to start @ Emory in a few days, my wife and kids just started back to school last week, and I had a series of really cool blog posts scheduled. A ton of other reasons make this an awful time to be without a computer.

Two of my buddies from Twitter are going to help a brother out with some temporary computers, but I have decided that this time without a computer (I am writing this from my trusty Blackberry) is a blessing…a sign of sorts. My son goes back to daycare next week and I have had way more time to play with him instead of having my nose stuck in the laptop. I have been praying a lot for our church plant and for several pastors around the country who are going through some real challenges. I have been doing a ton of laundry and little projects around the house.

Do you have anything in your life that you are currently seeing as bad, that you could choose to see for its benefits?

Try it and let me know how your change of perspective helps.

Love y’all!

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I have been burdened today to begin praying that The Courageous Church reaches 1,000 people with our Grand Opening Service on 1/11/2009.  This number sounds big, but in a city in which the overwhelming majority of new residents, old residents, and 50,000+ college students don’t go to church at all, the number may actually be too small!

Almost all of the churches in downtown Atlanta are very old, very denominational, very generational (multiple generations of one family in same church), and have been on the decline for the past decade or more. 

However, tens of thousands of young men, women, couples, and families are moving to downtown Atlanta in droves and simply aren’t connecting with the churches that are here in the city.  This is not my attempt to bash the churches that are here in the city, because they play a significant role for many people that would never come to a crazy church plant like The Courageous Church, but we are believing that 1,000 unchurched, dechurched, and formerly churched folk will show up for LIFE CHANGE on 1/11/2009!

After hearing news from my pastor friends all around the country about the thousands and thousands of people that are coming forward for salvation and baptism over the past few weeks, we are expecting the same thing and will continue building our momentum until we launch on 1/11/2009!

Please pray with us in the days ahead and click here if you are interested in other ways you can help!

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Wild_goose_chase_mark_batterson_2What an amazing question?!  If it is true that angels were, in part, created to guard and protect us as we pursue the will of God, are you living a life that is so dull and drab that your angel is somewhere yawning and gaining weight because of all of your inactivity?  It’s a funny thought, but also a sobering one.

Mark Batterson, the great pastor of National Community Church in Washington, DC, poses this question and many others in his latest book, Wild Goose Chase -the best book that I have read since Francis Chan’s "Crazy Love" a few months ago.  I have a ton of energy and excitement about doing what God has called me to do, but here is the truth of my life and I’m sure that you experience this as well…

Something about living in this world, from day to day to day, from bill to bill to bill, from diagnosis to sickness to treatment, something about living in our busy, swamped society has a way of squeezing all of the life and adventure out of you.  At the start of the day you will wake up, speak the word of God over your life, and be prepared to grab the bull by the horns.  By the end of the day your feet hurt and you just want to relax, watch the Olympics, and go to bed.

Wild Goose Chase pushed me over the hump as I read it last week and gave me the courage and inspiraton to push past the monotony and into the adventure of pursuing the plans of God. 

Listen, we are in the middle of planning some super-adventurous things for The Courageous Church before we launch in 145 days.  I have a FREE copy of Wild Goose Chase that I will give away to the person that posts the most adventurous, courageous, creative, out of the box idea for how we could market our church in the months ahead.  Post a comment and we will announce our winner later tonight!

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  • We are this (hold up your thump and index finger as if you were hold a piece of paper) close to finalizing the contract for our Sunday morning location and hope to announce that we’ve sealed the deal any day now!
  • This week I received about ten major signs and confirmations that this facility is THE right facility, at the right time, in the right area of downtown Atlanta.
  • No church has ever used this location for Sunday morning services and we think that its location in downtown Atlanta, the layout of the place, and its reputation with a very diverse set of people will play at least a small part in helping us reach unchurched people with the message and love of Jesus.
  • As I type this we are 146 days away from launching The Courageous Church and I am chomping at the bit to get started.  I have actually considered moving the launch date up several times, but people much smarter than me have advised me to wait until a few more pieces are in place.
  • If you have a Facebook account, I provided a sneak peek of the location here.
  • I hear WAY too many people say that we have to pick between the lesser of two evils with our presidential candidates this year and I just don’t feel that way.  I think the forum hosted by Rick Warren helped a lot of other people come to this same conclusion.  McCain and Obama are two wildly different candidates, but both come with very unique skill sets, gifts, and backgrounds that only a few people in the world share.
  • Buckhead Church & North Point Ministries has a stable of some of the most gifted, passionate musicians and worship leaders in our city.  Launching the Buckhead Music Project makes so much sense to me.
  • Speaking of Buckhead Church, it’s worth saying again that my entire family looks forward to our time there Sunday after Sunday (even EZ who normally throws a fit when I drop him off anywhere).
  • My wife and I love to sing along with Casey Darnell on Sunday mornings and regularly find ourselves to be the loudest singers on our row.  (I almost want to apologize to the poor lady standing next to me this morning because I already know I sound terrible.)
  • I am surprised week after week at how easy it is to watch Andy Stanley preach on video.  It’s not like they load a VHS tape into a 25" inch tv/vcr combo and have all 3,000 of us crowd around and struggle to listen, but it’s still video nonetheless.
  • My first week as a part-time middle school teacher was last week.  I forgot how bad teenage underarms can stink.  I told several boys (and girls) privately that they were going to have to step it up in this department.
  • My wife is trying very hard to beat the high score that my 6 year old daughter set in the cow-racing game on Wii Play.  Rai is so competitive that she has been trying for 2 hours.  I taught my daughter everything she knows about talking smack…so we are almost in the dog house!  How sad!
  • I have to cook dinner and was supposed to start 10 minutes ago.
  • I thank God that this blog has connected me to men and women all across the world that I am convinced I would probably never know otherwise.  I blog every single day with the hope that I can connect to a new soul somewhere in the world.   Give me some virtual dap!

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I almost retired from pastoring altogether when Craig Groeschel and Gary Lamb commented on my blog a few months back.  After I caught my breath and came to my senses, I realized that we haven’t even launched The Courageous Church yet. 

When I started reading some of my news from the Alltop website a few months ago, it didn’t even cross my mind that this blog would eventually be one of the featured news sources. So, when I learned that ShaunInTheCity.com was chosen as one of the top church blogs in the world, I was humbled and excited to join a growingly diverse crew of church bloggers featured there.  I should retire from blogging while I’m on top.

Except…I’m not quite yet on the top of the page, but if you scroll down a good bit, you’ll find our blog listed there!  I am sure your engaging and frequent comments made a difference.  Keep it up!  We’re going places!

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This is a picture of my girls a few years ago.  Tae didn’t have any teeth and Kendi hadn’t started elementary school yet.  I was the only man/boy they liked or loved.

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This is a shot of the girls before their first day of school.  They are getting tall and begged us to buy them t-shirts with the losers from Camp Rock on them.  A boy told Tae she was "hot" at school and I contemplated beating him up, but decided not to (once I learned he was in 1st grade and she is in 4th).

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Shawty_lo_ti_3 Way back in the day (two months ago) I used to just wake up and wonder what I should blog about.  Doing that day in and day out is not only stressful, but puts a major drain on creativity.  I am planning my blog posts out more now and even writing several posts at a time when my journalistic juices are flowing. Here are a few of the topics I hope to cover next week!

  • A feud (if you can call it that) has been going on between the rappers Shawty Lo &TI.  I am going to pull some leadership lessons out of this ongoing beef. I’ll try not to take sides!
  • If we can finalize a contract we hope to reveal the location where our Sunday morning services will be held for The Courageous Church when we launch in about 150 days.  Here’s a hint for you detective types – it’s very close to Atlantic Station.  That’s all I’m going to say about that!
  • I’m going to begin telling some hilarious (and hard to believe) stories from my past in preparation for some YouTube videos we’re going to be filming over the next few months.  They involve a wolf, guns, shootings, and transvestite prostitutes.
  • I’ll also be detailing how pastors, leaders, and particularly bloggers can use Facebook to connect with 1000’s of people around the world with little to no effort.

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This week I decided to take off my mask so that you could really see a more complete perspective of who I am.  For laughs and giggles I told you how often I get "the runs" before I speak publicly (bet I lost some invitations over that) and yesterday we started a great conversation about overcoming an addiction to pornography.  As we close out this week, I want to take the mask off one last time to talk to you about my personal finances

I get about 10-12 emails a day from church planters and young leaders seeking advice on everything under the sun.  More than anything else though, people want to know "how I’m making it" financially.  I’m married to a beautiful woman, have three kids with one on the way, I’m in grad school, and I’m planting a church in downtown Atlanta that I seem to talk about with anyone that will listen.  My answer to the question of "how am I making it" financially is…I’m Not!  In preacher-speak, I’m broke, but not broken.

Hear me – my rent is paid, (some of) my bills are paid, we always have food, but we have zero wiggle room whatsoever.  Things are tight – I mean super-tight like the jeans on this inappropriate man.  We are a part of the American class of people living paycheck to paycheck and this is primarily because of the decision that God I made to plant this church.  It was a major sacrifice!  Consequently, I don’t think I have ever worked and prayed so hard in my life for something to be a success.

I’m actually fairly savvy financially and that’s one of the reasons we are able to make a dollar out of fifteen cents from week to week.  We don’t waste our money on any fluff at all – zero.  There’s no room for it.  I want a flat-screen TV as bad as the next man, but buying a flat-screen would just be plain dumb for my family right now so we are still rocking the old school table top box television that I proudly bought from the returned items section of Best Buy seven years ago when my wife and I had our very first apartment.

I will be getting a student loan refund in a few weeks that I will be using to help pay the bills.  I’m not currently receiving a salary from our church, but one day I will.  I’m a grad student now, but one day I’ll graduate with a degree from a big, fancy, schmancy university.  My wife is a hard working public school teacher, but one day (Please Lord) she’ll be a principal.  I’m broke, but not broken because I have a real plan for my financial future that gives me some light at the end of the tunnel. 

::Disclaimer for Your Health & Well-Being::

Now listen closely.  I need you to hear this so that I don’t have to fight you in the streets.  Just because I told you this week that I have to boo-boo before I speak publicly, used to look at porn, and don’t have much money – DON’T GET THE BRIGHT IDEA to speak to me about these things if you see me at a restaurant with my kids or at a conference trying to learn something.  I will knock you upside your head.

I ran out of days this week to blog about my temper so you’ll just have to imagine that one for yourself.

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Overcoming Pornographic Addiction

August 14, 2008

This week I am taking off the mask and baring some of the funny and difficult realities of who I am.  Don’t get me wrong, I am comfortable being a role model for people, but I want folk to know that I have struggles today and have had struggles in the past just like them.
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Public Speaking Gives Me the Runs (Video)

August 13, 2008

I’m taking off my mask for the next few days and revealing some of the real challenges I have in life.  Pastors and leaders too often come off like everything is perfect and for me that’s just not the case.
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