From the monthly archives:

June 2008

Vince
Vince Antonucci is one of those pastors that I really identify with because he is regularly pushing people out of their comfort zones and gives you scripture to back it up.  On his blog today he is listing some of his favorite bible passages.  Click on the links above or check it out here.  God isn’t calling you to be respectable!

Here is the passage:

1 Corinthians 4:9, “We have been
made a spectacle to the whole universe, to angels as well as to men.
10We are fools for Christ, but you are so wise in Christ! We are weak,
but you are strong! You are honored, we are dishonored! 11To this very
hour we go hungry and thirsty, we are in rags, we are brutally treated,
we are homeless. 12We work hard with our own hands. When we are cursed,
we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; 13when we are
slandered, we answer kindly. Up to this moment we have become the scum
of the earth, the refuse of the world.”

Here is what Vince has to say about it:

This is one of those passages that just makes me go, "What the heck?!?"
And the reason isn’t because of the passage, it’s because of American
Christians today (including me). Seriously, read this passage and then
ask yourself, "Does this describe American Christians today? Are we
fools, week, dishonored, hungry and thirsty, in rags, brutally treated,
homeless … the scum of the earth, the refuse of the world?"

If
not, does that mean something is wrong? I’m pretty sure the answer is
yes. God has called us to something that we are not. We have lost
something in the last 2000 years … and we need to get it back. We
need to ask ourselves: Why has being a Christian made me respectable,
when it’s supposed to make me refuse? Why has it made me dignified,
when it’s supposed to make me scum? Why are we trying to be wise and
strong, when we’re supposed to be fools who are weak?

God has
called us to live lives that are upside down compared to the world, and
somehow we have righted them and turned them so that they’re the same
as the rest of the world.

I have to ask myself: What needs to
change in my way of thinking and living? What do I need to do to make
myself a fool for Christ?

Maybe you need to ask that too…

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It’s not about the website.

Hear me – I am totally, absolutely amped to get our church website up.  We’re proud of it.  You (my blog readers, facebook, myspace, twitter friends) and I paid for it.  It looks great.  It’s going to help us reach people.  It’s going to put us "out there" in the internet world with other churches….all of that stuff.

But church planting is not about a slick website.  It’s about people.  It’s about reaching and connecting with people that are far from God and disconnected from the church.  No matter how cool our website is, some random business will have a cooler one and we can’t put all of our eggs in that basket.

We have what no one else has, what no one else can duplicate, what others try to mimic, but can’t and that is the amazing, overwhelming, life-changing love of Jesus that can’t be contained on your website or mine.

I want you to keep checking our website for updates, but what I really want you to know is that after we launch this website later tonight is that we designed it for people to connect with our vision and that it is just one of many tools we will use to connect with folk in the city and around the world. 

Get a cool website, but just know that church planting is not about the website - it’s about people.

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Planterheader We are partnering with ARC (The Association of Related Churches) to launch the Courageous Church on 1-11-2009.  They are awesome people and we are totally amped to be a part of the team.  If you are interested in planting a church, re-launching a church, or need consulting or training from some of the best church planters in the United States…check out the new ARC website here.  It’s full of information, has some good free resources, and is much easier to navigate.

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  • It may sound ridiculous to some of you, but I read about 45 blogs a day.  I don’t visit all 45 sites -all of their updates are sent to my Bloglines page.  While most of the blogs are from pastors and church planters, many of them aren’t.
  • Every day I look forward to reading Seth Godin’s blog.  This guy is outrageously, inappropriately insightful with all things connected to leadership.  His last two blog entries alone have blown me away and I will make great use of the information with our church plant!  You need to read his blog regularly.
  • His post on "How to Organize the Room" may be boring to some of you, but it really got my creative juices flowing on what our Sunday morning services should look like.
  • His post today about "Low Hanging Fruit" was very surprising and thought-provoking.  I probably thought differently and want to know how I can do what he is saying there.
  • If you go to look on the right hand side of this blog and scroll down some, you will see some of the blogs that I am reading.
  • Rai is about 8 weeks pregnant now and is still sick as a dog.  We got to see the baby this week on the ultrasound.  The baby is only 1 centimeter big and has a measurable heartbeat – can you believe that???  That’s insane to me.  God is wonderful.
  • After much discussion and prayer, Rai and I made the difficult decision to send our niece and nephew that had been living with us this summer back to stay with their grandmother.  With Rai so sick and me busting my butt, we were not able to handle it five kids with one on the way.  This was a heart-wrenching decision, but we had to do it sooner than we planned.
  • I have been working around the clock on the website for our church plant and will blog about that more tonight.  You can get a sneak peek of what it looks like (in progress) at www.Courageous.tv.
  • I have grown to like Facebook way more than I do MySpace, but might like Twitter better than both of them.  It has really given me a personal glimpse into the lives of pastors and leaders that I really admire in a way that is very different than any other form of social media.  The reverse is true as well – many friends, peers, strangers, and mentors are following my every move there and get to see what a day in the life of a young, urban church planter is all about.
  • After we launch our website in about 48 hours, I am going to put even more energy into building our launch team throughout July & August.  I hope I always feel this way, but I have a sense of urgency to spread the Gospel and the transformative message of Jesus in a way that I never have before. 
  • I will also begin a major fundraising push and am actually embracing the challenge.
  • I gotta go fix breakfast for the family in about 180 seconds before we get dressed to go to Buckhead Church.  We love it there.
  • I hope you have a great day today!

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The theological foundation of the Courageous Church is based a great deal on the notion that God is calling us to live and walk a dangerous life.  Mark Batterson, one of my blog heroes and an urban pastor I admire a great deal, talks about this on his blog today.  Check it out.

This weekend, Mark & the National Community Family will be showing Perry Noble’s One Prayer message with the same idea – Make Us Dangerous.  It’s awesome.  Watch it here.

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Robert_mugabeMost of you have probably heard of the news of the total leadership failure going on right now in Zimbabwe.  The situation there is an enormous mess that has developed into a full-blown humanitarian crisis that will likely get much worse before it gets better.

I suspect of my readers see this news and file it in the same file of the cost of corrupt, rogue leaders around the world, but this case is altogether different and deserves a little background research if you want to squeeze a personal leadership lesson out of this crisis.  I follow African politics very closely and have a number of African friends whose families are in politics or leadership throughout the continent.

Robert Mugabe is 84 years old and has been in office since 1980.  During that period, he has been celebrated, rightfully so, as one of the most progressive, visionary leaders in the world.  For years after colonialism, Zimbabwe was used as a shining example of how a country can rebound from oppression.  Mugabe won award after award around the world and was very able to be a player on the international stage.  Knighted by Queen Elizabeth, celebrated by the United Nations, loved by all of his peers throughout Africa – Mugabe was a good leader during tough times.

It is in the midst of this great success. many years ago, that we find the pivotal point where the threads that were holding him (and Zimbabwe) together began to unravelRobert Mugabe began to believe that he was the only person that could lead his country.  Instead of seeing the beauty and reward of training successors, he began to feel threatened by emerging leaders.  Most of this is ego rooted in the false belief that HE was the best (and only) person that continue leading the country he loved. 

For the past ten years he has squashed uprising, political opposition, and free press – to the surprise of his friends around the world – many who have stuck with him in spite of his errors.  Now, when a qualified opposition leader caused an election runoff (and probably won the general election the first time around), Mugabe and all of his followers, have been brutally violent to anyone that threatens their future in power.

Now, because of Mugabe’s inability to let go of power and inability to see a future beyond his own nose, he is ruining a beautiful country, its economy, its people, and its good name.

Listen – this lesson applies to all of us.  Do you know when to let go? In arguments, do you know when to let go?  In leadership, do you know when your time has passed?  Do you have successors in place?  If not, you may be more like Mugabe than you know.

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Read part 1 and part 2 of this series.

We have four potential locations that we are currently considering for our Sunday morning services.  Each location has strengths and challenges.  We are, by no means, locked in to these spots and are completely open to the idea of some fresh lofts or clubs that we might not know about yet.  Here is what I can say about all of these locations – they are relatively affordable, accessible, safe, and could accommodate the type of ministry we want to do.  Let me give you some details about all of them and I’d love to get some feedback from you.

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Option # 1 – The Plaza Theatre on Ponce next to the new Urban Outfitters

Summary

The Plaza Theatre is an independent movie theater located very visibly and prominently on Ponce de Leon Avenue a few blocks from Whole Foods and next door to a new Urban Outfitters store.  The theatre has a very vintage look, is in a very high traffic area, and has very community-friendly owners.  It is really the only independent theater in Atlanta and has a really funny history.  In the 70’s it served as an X-Rated theater and even as a live burlesque spot. 

Strengths

Great visible, easy-to-find location that already has pretty good name recognition.  It’s vintage, independent history and feel are edgy and unique – which is some of what we want to capture with our church.  It’s owners are community-centered and purchased the theater with the community in mind.

Challenges

Parking is a major problem here Monday-Saturday, but I am not sure what it looks like on Sunday morning.  The theater is very, very old and it shows in many ways – carpet, chairs, technology, etc.  It is known for showing horror movies and the Rocky Horror Picture Show – not sure if that’s a challenge or not!  It is only a two screen theater – so space may be a challenge if we want to offer a lot of classes for children.

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Option #2 – Grady High School across from Piedmont Park

Summary

Grady High School has the best reputation of any public high school in the city of Atlanta and inside of our target area.  It is located right across from Piedmont Park and a pretty high-traffic shopping center.  It is about 1/2 mile away from Whole Foods.  Atlanta Public Schools is pretty friendly to churches and I have already toured this facility a few times and looked at contracts.  The last church plant that I oversaw was done in a public school so I am pretty familiar with how they work.  I live in this school district.

Strengths

Grady High has a pretty good reputation in our city.  This school is very diverse because its feeder schools come from affluent and impoverished areas.  We want to reach both communities.  The school has a theater, a cafeteria, and a gym that we could use for our main service and tons of classroom space.  We are considering hosting a meal every Sunday and the school has an available kitchen as well.  Parking would rarely be a problem here except if Piedmont is having a major event on a Sunday morning. 

Challenges

Like most stuff in this area of town, the school is pretty old, but has undergone recent renovations.  Grady is not located on a major street like the Plaza Theatre.  The school theater would be the best for Sunday services, but it is kind of disconnected from the classrooms that we would use for children’s ministry.

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Option #3 – Midtown Arts Cinema on Monroe St. next to Trader Joe’s

Summary

The Midtown Arts Cinema is located in a very popular shopping center next to Trader Joe’s and some cool, independent restaurants and businesses.  It is really across the street from Grady High School and Piedmont Park.  It is known for showing independent films, but also shows the new hits as well.  The theater is older, but is very well kept and has 6 screens and a good sized lobby.

Strengths

This theater is very well-kept and larger than the Plaza Theatre.  Parking here is normally a problem on Monday-Saturday, but I have a hunch that Sunday mornings would provide ample parking space.  This is a very high traffic area, but not as much as the Plaza Theatre.  The fact that it offers more space and more theaters is a big plus for the type of ministry that we want to do.

Challenges

Like Grady High School, this theater is easy to find for community regulars, but is not on a main street like the Plaza theater and is tucked in the back of the shopping center.  This theater would likely cost a little more than the Plaza.

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Option #4 – Inman Middle School inside of Virginia-Highlands

Summary

Inman Middle School is in the middle of a very residential area inside of the Virginia Highlands neighborhood.  It is perhaps the best middle school in the city and is in our school district. The facilities are really nice and Atlanta Public Schools is open to us using the facility.  I toured the facility and like it a lot.

Strengths

In addition to having a great reputation, these school facilities are very nice and the area is safe, clean, and green.  The school has classrooms for children’s ministry and a nice gym and auditorium we could use for our main service.

Challenges

This school, while located downtown and inside of our target area, is not on any main streets near any high traffic areas. It may be a little difficult to find on Sunday mornings and would require pretty good signage.   Parking is rather limited since it is a middle school and not a high school.

OTHER OPTIONS THAT WE ARE ALSO OPEN TO:

Castleberry Hill – an emerging downtown neighborhood of lofts, restaurants, art exhbits, coffee shops, and more.  This area really needs more churches and the demographics fit who we are targeting.  This area is outside of our preferred geographic location, but would allow us to reach this community and still have some presence in our preferred location.

Atlantic Station – a brand new live, work, play community that is probably the most popular destination in all of Atlanta.  With thousands of brand new residents and tens of thousands of workers and shoppers there regularly, this is a high traffic area that could use a few more church plants.  It is only about 1 mile from our preferred geographic location and would allow us to reach both areas.

Nightclubs downtown – a few churches that we really admire like Mosaic in Los Angeles have made great use of nightclub space.  Several prominent clubs exist downtown that are regularly available on Sunday evening.  We are still open to this.

We are also open, although maybe down the road, to the idea of a leasing a space to build out something like a coffee house that we use for services on Sunday morning.  This is a major undertaking, but really appeals to us in areas like Castleberry and Atlantic Station.

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Earlier, I discussed the general neighborhood where we hope to begin holding Sunday services on 1-11-2009 and detailed 5 practical reasons for launching in this area.  Beyond those 5 practical reasons, I want to give you the more esoteric rationale for planting near the Whole Foods on Ponce in downtown Atlanta.

It feels right.  In my gut, in my mind, in my spirit -it clicks.
  I sense a release from God to do this work in this area.  I would really, really like to launch a church in Atlantic Station and we may do that down the road, but I am sensing a pretty strong calling to the Poncey-Highlands area of our city and being called to an area makes a difference.

Atlantic Station is cool, its hip, its new, and its and is going to need some more church plants, but feeling a sense of calling for an area is a big deal.  It creates momentum and energy.  Being called to an area produces passion and excitement.  Because I feel called to that area, I want to see it flourish in every way possible.  Most church planters (including me) can imagine planting pretty much anywhere, but feeling a confirmation from God that you are in the right place at the right time creates a confidence that really helps.

Next I will detail four potential locations for our Sunday morning services and would love your gut reactions and honest feedback.

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One question that I get asked almost as much as any other is "Where is the Courageous Church going to have Sunday services?"  I am always very surprised that so many people ask this question and I feel that it reveals that Sunday services are still the "main thing" in the minds of most people.  Our church is going to have six practical ways that it fleshes out it’s mission (Sunday services, creative use of technology, small groups, random acts of kindness, addressing courageous causes, and through a bold covenant), but people always want to know about Sunday services – they are really an established part of the national Christian brand.  The other 5 ways that we will flesh out our mission will require effort to introduce and are not already assumed by the people.

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The Courageous Church won’t begin having Sunday morning services until 1-11-2009, but we’ve already scouted out several locations, prayed, done a bunch of research on what other churches are doing, and even talked to a few places to look at costs and contracts.  What we have settled is a very specific geographical location in downtown Atlanta and this area of town only has but a handful of options for where we could hold services. Since we can’t actually hold our Sunday services inside this Whole Foods on Ponce in downtown Atlanta, we want to be less than a mile from it.  Here’s why:

1.  This is my area of town.  We shop at and around this Whole Foods several times per week.  I live 1 mile from this location.  Our kids will go to school in this district.  My office is within walking distance of this Whole Foods.

2. This area of town is full of life and traffic.  Whole Foods is the center of gravity for this area, but dozens and dozens of other businesses and offices have caused this area of town to be outrageously busy.

3. This area of town is diverse.  Whole Foods is partly responsible for this, but this area is a microcosm of the ethnic, national, and socio-economic diversity of all of Atlanta.

4. The vast majority of people that frequent this side of town are highly un-churched or de-churched, but express an openness to spirituality and community service that I feel presents an open door for something fresh and new.

5. This area of town is within 3 miles of 6 major colleges and universities and about 50,000 college students.  I was a student leader in college and still have a huge passion for college students and know that the suburban churches that are so far away from these campuses will have a much harder time reaching them now that gas prices are so high.

((I have a lot more to say, but my wife just asked me to make a pregnant lady food run…haha!))

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A bunch of you are here because Los mentioned my blog on his Twitter.  Hi! 
I am a church planter in downtown Atlanta and our church will be launching on 1-11-2009.  Until then, my family is calling Buckhead Church home – it’s a great place.  I say a little more about why we chose to be there for now here.

I am about to hit the road for Nashville today and am taking all of the kids with me.  I feel a very real National Lampoon’s spirit in the air.

Pray for us and continue praying for wifey.  It ceases to be morning sickness when you have it 24 hours a day, right?!

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  • I just saw a 60 Minutes segment with my wife on a new food called Plumpy Nut.  It is like a miracle food to starving kids around the world.  My mind is racing on how churches can provide this food to the kids and families that need it.  Watch this video and see it for yourself.

  • Took all 5 kids to church without wifey. This is a minor miracle all by itself.  She is still sick.  Put it this way, I reaallly need my wife to get well soon.  1st trimester has a long way to go though. 
  • A great service @ Buckhead Church today.  Los was the worship leader and he did an awesome job at explaining the meaning and purpose of the songs and what we were doing.  It was as if he was answering this post with what he was doing.  I want to get it on video to show our prospective worship leaders and team.  Good stuff.
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    The sermon was on video today, but it was so clear that it was very easy to forget that it wasn’t live.  I was in the church balcony for the first time in a decade.  That’s a grainy shot from my Blackberry.
  • Going to watch Cloverfield later tonight if I can squeeze in some time.  We’ll see.
  • Cooked out in the rain.  Singing in the rain is for wimps.  Grilling in the rain is manly.
  • Driving to Nashville tomorrow to see my newborn nephew.
  • Amped that One Prayer is going so well for so many churches this month.
  • Almost considered retirement when Craig Groeschel and Gary Lamb commented on this blog entry of mine.  Then I realized that I haven’t planted our church yet so I can’t retire- a small technicality.  I love church planters – a combination of raw insanity, entrepreneurship, pure passion for God, and a belief that the church can still make the world a better place makes us a close-knit bunch.
  • My 20 month old son is radically different than my daughter when she was the same age.  She was cute, sweet, and soft.  He is rough, emotional, and rough.  Did I say that he is rough?  I didn’t know you could inherit that gene!
  • My two oldest kids are staying with friends this week – dreaming about how I am going to take advantage of this time.
  • Working my butt off to launch Courageous.tv in about a week. 
  • I am still loving Twitter and feel like it is helping me get to know pastors behind all of the fluff.  I really concur with Mark Batterson’s 5 Reasons Why I Love Twitter.  Check me out here on Twitter.
  • Please continue praying for Rai and the very little pumpkin seed inside of her belly!  We need it.
  • God loves you and I do too (went old school on you)!

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The internet and all of its many tools are used for a lot nefarious things.  My friend Eugene Cho, the pastor of Quest in Seattle has launched a movement on Facebook to fight the very real, pressing cause of global poverty.  When I joined the Facebook group he created several weeks ago, it had a few dozen members – now it has about 25,000 members and is building major momentum.  A $1 donation is made for everyone that joins the group.

See what Eugene has to say about it and join the group when you get a chance.  It’ll only take 2-3 minutes, but could have eternal consequences.

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A few weeks ago I hosted a research group at my home to help us get a small glimpse into the perceptions people have of church, what they are looking for in a church (if they are looking), and what issues locally and internationally really pique their interest.  Much of what is revealed in the book UnChristian was revealed through our survey and discussion as well – particularly the idea that church folk are particularly hypocritical and have no real values or code that they (we) live by.  This was easily the hot button issue of our night.

Seven years ago I remember reading Erwin McManus deal with this very issue in his book An Unstoppable Force.  The bar for what it means to be a Christian has been set so outrageously low, he said, that we are really only scratching the surface of what God has in mind for us.  He proposed setting a new Radical Minimum Standard (RMS) for what it means to be a Christian that better reflects that clear call of God for all of us.

Does your church have a code or covenant that members/partners are encouraged to live by?  How does it work? We are considering creating one.

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After going through a two-day assessment and communicating with some great leaders for the past few months, we just learned that The Courageous Church was approved to be an ARC church plant.  I am so absolutely stoked about this opportunity and all of the possibilities that will open up because of it.

ARC (Association of Related Churches) was formed about eight years ago to provide support, encouragement, coaching, and financial stability to church plants.  With the goal of planting 2000 churches by 2020, the ARC movement is beginning to really pick up steam.  Right now the number of churches is a small, potent force that I really
expect to begin growing exponentially over the next 2-3 years.

Beyond the fact that ARC churches are highly relational, extremely well organized and efficient, they have a passion and zeal that is amazing.  When it was my turn to speak to the entire group at the assessment center, everyone cracked up when I said that ARC churches are undercover Pentecostal – but what I meant was that ARC churches are Spirit-Led and have a passion for the Lord that is so real it’s tangible.

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I first learned about ARC while reading the blog of Craig Groeschel, Senior Pastor of LifeChurch.tv.  Craig is a guy that I really look up to and I was very surprised and interested when I found that he was so impressed with the quality of ARC that he wanted LifeChurch.tv to be a part of the movement.  Some of the most awesome pastors in the country, like Dino Rizzo, Greg Surratt, and Chris Hodges were ARC pastors that I already admired from afar, but I didn’t even know that they were with ARC until I read this blog post.

I met Chuck Angel, the Senior Pastor of BridgePointe Church here in metro Atlanta at the assessment center this week and am really looking forward to spending some time with him, Kevin, and the BridgePointe crew in the months ahead.  Having an ARC church like BridgePointe close by is going to be a major asset for us as we prepare to launch.

I’ll continue to blog about our relationship with ARC in the days and months ahead.

Keep praying for us! We need it.

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I love my brother Jason like crazy!  He is an awesome man and youth pastor in Nashville. He and his wife Sophie just had a baby a few hours ago.  I am going to make a road trip on Monday to go see my new  nephew…can’t wait!

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At our ARC Assessment Center this past week, the twelve church planting teams were split into four groups and given about two hours to create, from the ground up, a church plant model to present to the assessors for a fake prize of $100,000.  Some other teams had presentations that were over the top good (yes, maybe even better than ours).  But we got the check because we were the only team that asked for the money.  Somehow I came home with the check (hmmm…wonder how that happened), but Jeff Murphy was the one that really sealed the deal with the money request!

Here is the check…look at the bank name very closely – I wonder how much I have in my account there?

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With my wife really, really sick during this first trimester of our pregnancy and the house crazy with 5 very busy kids, it takes staying up late to get important projects done.  She is sound asleep (which is an improvement) just a few feet away now  and all of the kids are completely knocked out.

It’s about 2:30am and I am burning the midnight oil (hence the photo of said 80’s rock band) trying to complete the website for our church plant.  I am still floored when I think about the fact that friends from MySpace, Facebook, and the blogosphere joined with me to cover the costs for the site.   We’ll be launching it in about 10 days on June 30th and I am pretty doggone amped – even with the sun about to come up! 

Keep praying for Rai – I am pretty sure your prayers are helping.

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My new friend Paul Peterson just posted, in great detail, his experience at the ARC Assessment Center this week.  My wife, who is 6 weeks pregnant, is sick like one of the monsters on 28 Days Later so I will try to post my thoughts on the assessment later tonight or early tomorrow.  Paul pretty much says it all though!

He was one of the guys that I was uber impressed with and I am completely confident that Paul and his wife Sherri are going to launch an awesome work in Ohio when they launch Walls Down Church in the Cincinnati metro area later this year.

Gotta run – family calls…pray for us and send me any pregnancy nausea tips you may have that you or your spouse actually tried.  Thanks!

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Caught It!

June 18, 2008

Little did I know, on the top shelf of the freezer, the large glass Pyrex dish of homemade spaghetti sauce was stacked on top of two cylinders of frozen organic apple juice…a recipe for disaster.  When I opened the door to grab the bag of frozen mixed fruit, the Pyrex dish of spaghetti sauce came [...]

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Who’s Coaching You?

June 17, 2008

Whatever it is you want to do in life, someone has probably already done it or done something pretty doggone similar.  If you want, you can learn all of the tough lessons they learned for yourself, reinvent a few wheels, hit a few extra walls, and be a lone ranger.
Or…you can have a seasoned sage [...]

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